This post is part of a much larger project exploring the Biblical concept of “bitterness,” looking at all the occurrences of the Hebrew and Greek words as they’re used throughout the Bible.
This is important, because the accusation of “bitterness” is often used to shame and blame and silence victims and survivors of abuse. (I’ve been listening to many sermons and reading articles and books to that effect.)
I believe the Bible makes it clear that bitterness definitely doesn’t always mean what we’ve been led to think it means.
See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God;
that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble,
and by it many become defiled;
People are told that their continuing to be troubled by their abuse is evidence of a “root of bitterness” in their lives, which will defile others.
So . . . how can we avoid being like the sermonizers and writers who simply assume that the “root of bitterness” there is unforgiveness? How can we figure out what it really is?
We can do this by looking at the Old Testament passage it’s referring to, by looking at the grammar, and by looking at the context.